Traveling looks a little different once you have a toddler in tow. There’s the snacks. The emergency lovey. And the very real chance that someone melts down… before you even get on the plane.

If you’re gearing up for a winter getaway (or just daydreaming about one) this guide from our family friends at Tinybeans is full of real-life tips from parents who’ve been there. From packing smarter to managing expectations (yours included), this one’s worth bookmarking.